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4 Steps to Celebrate the Success of Others
We've all seen the quote floating around our Instagram feeds: "Don't let the success of others threaten your own success." But what if we pushed further and went out of our way to support the success of those around us? Here are four quick steps to help you make it happen this week.
Body of Friendship: Surround Yourself With Good Friends
No matter who you are or what you do, always surround yourself with good friends. They will spot you through life’s challenges, they will give you warm companionship, and you will support them with love in return.
Living the Nomadic Lifestyle
When we first learned about Linda and her husband, Tyler, leaving everything behind to travel the world, you could say we were a bit more than intrigued.
How I Survived a Relationship With an Abusive Addict
Domestic abuse and trauma change your internal landscape forever. A true story of surviving a relationship with an abusive addict.
In the Scheme of Love, Almost Isn't Enough
You think of him whenever you've ended another relationship, don't you? The almost one. You tend to think of how he made you laugh, of how he adored you, how he understood you; of how you somehow thought you'd beat the odds together.
3 Ways to Be a More Authentic Friend
Now that I'm in my twenties, I don't think I'm alone in saying that the kinds of friendship I'm looking for have changed, too. So, I'd love to share a few lessons I've learned about friendship so far.
The Soft Animal of Your Heart
What does it really mean to be you? Finding yourself can be a tricky concept. In this blog post, read an inspirational true story about finding your self-identity and embracing who you are. Visit hollandlanemag.com to read.
Rebuilding For Both of Us
Not to be dramatic or anything, but two days after returning from our honeymoon, I got a text from my husband that changed our lives: I need you to drive me to the ER.
The Crux of Vulnerability and Loving Wholly
This topic has been talked and sung about since the beginning---and yet humanity is still trying to fully understand, communicate, and master this concept of love.
The Brightest Night of Our Lives: An Adoption Story
We had no idea what to expect, but the moon glowed iridescent against the window and my husband was waiting outside in the hall and our son — the little lion man who was ushered in by thousands waiting for his arrival — was about to be born.
The Lessons I Learned From My Divorce
The occurrence of my first marriage is something I keep close to the vest. It’s easy, considering the marriage lasted less than two years and ended before my twenty-fourth birthday. But when I do let someone in on that part of my life, they always ask, “What happened?”
The Best Worst Day Of My Life
September 19th is the day my heart breaks. September 19th is the day my heart is made whole again.
Courage in the Face of Fear
I used to believe that I wasn’t afraid of anything, because my fears weren’t the obvious ones. The fear of losing someone you love, of embarrassing yourself in front of a crowd, of not being able to pay the bills.
Those fears hide in plain sight. But other fears are craftier.
The Grief of Choosing
Onions don't cry for themselves. They leave the grieving to us, we who cut them open for our own pleasure.
How My "No" Became a "Yes"
So three hours into a first date, with a guy that you just met on Match.com, you probably shouldn’t say, “I am not going to have a baby.” Especially if he put on his profile that he wants to have kids.
I Was a Surrogate
I always assumed that all little girls wanted to be mommies when they grew up, that they had names picked out for their future children and a happy picture of what life would be like as a mommy. Unfortunately, not all women grow up being able to physically have children of their own.
Friendship and the Game of "Life"
I never expected that game to mean so much to me, then again, I didn’t expect that game to birth the friendship it did. I'm sentimental, and as I've thought through that night so long ago that game has become a beautiful analogy for me.
Keeping In Touch the Old Fashioned Way
In a world where social media and smartphones have made sharing our lives effortless, I keep in touch with one of my best friends through ink and paper.
Making Friends in Your 30s
I wish I had learned about friendship years ago. I wish I hadn't cut people out. I wish I hadn't spent so many years feeling lost.
5 Steps to Forgiveness
This isn't about what happened. It's not about why my friends betrayed me or who encouraged people I'd known for years to stop speaking to me. It's not about the people who still believe that everything they did was right, and that I am some kind of delusional person who is telling stories. It's not about any of them.